Not about Love way

Maybe being in a relationship isn't about Love or being “InLove”.

I think it's mostly because you have a lot in common with one another and that you get along pretty well.

I would admit here that I wasn't inlove with Dongie when I first met him. He was inlove with me though. He said, He saw me and he knew right away that I was the one for him. I was so surprised when he said that because he just met me. I however, learned how to love him in due time.And we've become very close as time goes on and became my bestest friend and confidante. 29 years together thru thick and thin. 

We got along so well, like a "twin soul" or "kindred soul"..that it was easy to live with  him and eventually love him. He was a great partner,husband and father to  our kids. Plus he really had a kind heart and soul. If I was the strong and impulsive one..he was the calm and understanding one. Everyone said that we would never last because we were so opposite. I guess it's true.."Opposites attract".

I love that he loved my "independence" and in awe how a single woman like me could venture to the US and live all by myself. I think he was always with a partner when he was single. I do not have a lot of partners. I was still too picky and if it doesn't work out, I just checked out. But it's true, I do not need to check out with Dongie because we "balanced" each other.

Maybe  that's what it's all about..

Finding someone that will balance you or balanced with.

I actually know right away when I would click with someone. Bu

t as they said...I'm too lazy to check out now...lol...I tried to give countless, deniable chances before. Athough now I realized, we cannot waste our time with the wrong person. Either they are with us or not. I think I will be single for a longer time..lol

So the lesson here is, we dont go into a relationship just because we love them, we need to find great common things with them. We need to know that this person will balance us.

Ah, relationships...I haven't had one in forever. 

I would not be ready if it hit me with a ton of bricks I guess..hahaha